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Wednesday, July 26, 2006 

I think I'm courting someone

It's not anyone from Guam. It's not anyone you know. It's actually someone from the Philippines. I never thought I would be courting anybody from there or someplace besides Guam, but...hey man...I'll take love in any way I can get it. I'm getting older. I haven't had a relationship with anyone. I figured this year's the year to try, or at least start looking actively.

I'm not in love with this person...yet...we're just friendly at the moment. It's kind of hard to fall in love via text messages. We have some things in common...he's born in 1979, he's never been married, we have similar tastes in music and entertainment. He's an outdoor type, I'm an indoor type. He smokes and drinks on occasion, and I don't. He's thoughtful and kind so far, and respectful. He speaks a little bit of english, but he's not fluent. He says he loves to talk and socialize, and I'm kind of a hermit, and never the first to initiate conversations with strangers.

How did this happen?

Well, my coworker is engaged to a kuya John from the Philippines. Kuya John's cousin, whom is my object of attention and possibly affection, is Arnold. My coworker is trying to bring Kuya John over here on a fiance visa, and she will marry kuya John this year. Since she knew Arnold was single, she started playing matchmaker with us, and decided to offer me the chance to text and get to know Arnold. I said yes of course, as no other opportunities were present.

And so far it's been nice. It can get frustrating at times...communicating via phones and messages is really nothing compared to actually being together, face to face. So, I'm gonna take a vacation early next year to check him out. If I can save up money also, I'd like to try to get Lasik done at the same time ^_^

Any questions? Comments? Advice?

Val told me a little bit about your texting affair, but I'm glad you blogged about it. Dude! I was trying to call you but yer phone is busy because you're online! I'm on my way to work now, but I'll come back and give you my two cents afterwards.

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